Most new players tend to post in "Trade" when trying to find a spouse.

These are alternative options to getting married on torn instead of Flooding the Trade chat.

METHOD 1

STEP 1:
Go to newspaper, click on "Personals". From there you will see a box of four options:

• "Man seeking a woman"
• "Woman seeking a man
• "Man seeking a Man"
• "Woman seeking a woman"

STEP 2:
Select the option of your choice and browse through the ads listed. (NOTE: you can also place an ad on here)
ads last for 7 days, in this time even if you or the person is married the ad will still be up. More than likely a single person (unmarried) will be within the first set of people (especially if they live in a PI). So choose from the first set of people, check if they're married and if not message them.

STEP 3:
If no one on the list is online and it is taking forever, what you do is make yourself some friends. How is this done? Trade chat of course!

METHOD 2:
If you have seen Hank's "Power Levelling Guide" you should have 15 days donator status and about 20m from goodie bag. if you have not read Hank's guide >>>> Hank's Power Levelling Guide<<<<

From the money made from following Hank's guide you should have traded with people who have been in Torn for a while people who are high leveled and should have many friends. After all these people should be making new friends everyday doing trading right?

STEP 1:
Make friends with all whom you trade so that you can ask them if there is someone who they may know who needs setting up.

STEP 2:
Speak to person find out if they're who you were looking for. If this is the case you have a spouse and a witness. If not keep looking and asking around until you find your match!

In these instances you are guaranteed to find a spouse without flooding the Trade chat with things like "Looking for a wife", "looking to get married" ect.
Happy marrying and House and finanace and game sharing! ðð

SIDE NOTE:

This part is for those who intend on getting married but have no idea how to go about getting married.

STEP 1:
Buy a ring

STEP 2:
Go to items click ring and the option to propose will appear. Click propose and type name of person and send.

STEP 3:
have person accept and go to Church. Request your friends to witness.

STEP 4:
after friend agrees on request write vows, say yes, kiss and enjoy being a married person on Torn!