Sorry bro I didn't mean to laugh. The key to getting the girl in this situtation is to just keep hoping man! I find the best thing to do is rent all of her favorite romantic comedies and ask her to come over and watch them. When she's like "nah, I'm going out to sex this dude tonight" you just watch them by yourself.
The key here is to remember that life works our like the movies you are watching. If you waste your entire life pining over her, you might get a mercy f**k! Err, I mean she will fall hopelessly in love after somehow all of a sudden deciding to notice all the lame unreciprocated emotional investment you've shamelessly given her.
You want serious advice? The odds are against you and it is easier to find another, better girl. Should you decide to carry on anyway, here's the three magic rules, courtesy of the Tao Of Steve
Be desireless
Be awesome
Be gone
The first is important now because the harder you try at the moment, the harder she will friend zone you. Being desireless allows her to relax around you so you can do the next two things
Bring awesome comes in many forms. Looks, money, humour are common but even just bring talented at something is enough. Note that being good at guitar or football will stand you in better stead than being good at call of duty - most girls (even "geek" girls) are turned off by over geekiness. They want you to be awesome at something they can boast about to friends and family. Something that marks you as a good mate and not just a loser. Being awesome is what attracts their attention and makes them see you differently. However, at this point, remember step one otherwise you run the risk of being picked up and then dropped quickly.
Finally, be gone. After you have been awesome, you must then avoid her for a while. This gives time for her to stop thinking of you as an emasculated lady boy cry shoulder. If you have been suitably awesome she well then be thinking about you, but even if not, weeks or months down the line you can reappear and no longer be friend zoned.
I've done this. It works. It's rarely worth it. The advice about manning up and writing out etc, it's all good and will help you find a girl, not necessarily just this one. But simply try avoid the situation on the first place.
By USCCHRIS [1460226]
Anyone know any good ways to get out of the friend zone??
Tell her you don't want to be friends anymore and leave.
LMAO
well you can get out of the friendzone, but you gotta be patient man. You gotta not give in too easily from now onwards. I would stop talking to her for a long time, maybe just hi, byes, how are you.(the less you talk the better). And well you two will slowly become distant and distant till a point where you can almost say you can start out a fresh.
Well in most cases - there is absolutely no way out of the friend zone. I have broken this trend but under special circumstances - met a girl who was in a relationship about 2 yrs ago, she got out of it about 3-4 months ago and i was in my own relationship but still gave her a shoulder to cry on (win-win, i was getting laid in my relationship and i was making this girl see that not all guys a lying cheating scumbags)... then shit started to go south with my gf and she was there for me. So about a month ago i broke off my relationship and ive been seeing my "friend" for the past month - i broke out of the friend zone... very rare thing to happen but it can happen. It has to be under the right circumstances - see girls have you in the friend zone because you let them keep you there. They get everything from you that a boyfriend would give them without having to give up the pussy. So yea i agree with some of the other comments - stop talking to her so much and maybe get a gf or hook up with other girls and tell her about it or let her see what's going on. If the girl notices that other girls want you, she will want you - just a theory - but i've seen it work before.
1. I haven't done any of those first 4
2. I'm not old enough to have liscence
3. You're a F*cking dumbsh*t
Im a dumb shit?
Behave yourself boy. Youre the one in the friend zone, not me. I've never been in the friend zone. Some men are just more manly men than others.
How I see us both right now. You can work out the rest.
One of you is a highly paid successful actor on a hit comedy show, and one of you is recovering from a huge drug addiction after suffering a massive public meltdown?
By USCCHRIS [1460226]
Anyone know any good ways to get out of the friend zone??
1. Make sure you're her bestest BEST friend.
2. Kiss her by surprise (on the cheek).
Next thing you know, wild crazy SEX!
At least that's what I'll do if my bestie kisses me out of nowhere ^^
Tried this method few months ago, she got angry at me not in a rage way,but she ignored me, didn't want to talk with me, took a f**king hint that i like her (2# on lips, not on the cheek)
Reduced conversations to the minimum since then... still friends but im not interested anymore.
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