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Marriage Information

Within Torn you can marry a player if you wish. You propose to the other player with a ring which can be bought from the Jewelry Shop, the item market or at auction. Rings may also be stolen from the Jewelry Shop by doing the shoplifting crime.

When you have proposed to another player the other player must accept it for you to become married to them. You are permitted to marry players of either gender.

To end a marriage, either player may divorce the other. You may not divorce until you have been married for at least 7 days. Divorces are granted by going to CitySouth Side Divorce Agency and verify that you want to divorce your spouse.

One of the benefits of marriage is the ability to share a property. Either player may move into a property owned by the other player. However, the owner of the property has the ability to kick his or her spouse out of that property. Your spouse may not kick you from a property that you own. Spouses are unable to access vaults on the others properties.

Awards and honors can be earned by staying married to the same person for increasing amounts of time.

This is from torn wiki and i like to add something new to it make getting marred on torn more fun.


1. Prenuptial agreement
if you dont know what that is a Prenuptial agreement is a contract entered into prior to marriage, civil unio;n or any other agreement prior to the main agreement by the people intending to marry or contract with each other. The content of a prenuptial agreement can vary widely, but commonly includes provisions for division of property and spousal support in the event of divorce or breakup of marriage.

2. If you dont get a Prenuptial agreement what you make when you two are marred is split in half.

3. polygamy if you dont know what that is is a marriage which includes more than two partners.When a man is married to more than one wife at a time, the relationship is called polygyny, and there is no marriage bond between the wives; and when a woman is married to more than one husband at a time, it is called polyandry, and there is no marriage bond between the husbands.

4. Group marriage if you dont know what that is is a marriage-like arrangement between more than two people. Usually consisting of three to six adults, all partners live together, share finances, children, and household responsibilities.

5. if you two live together in one property the one who owns the property can make it so that the one who does not own property can pay half of the up keep.

6. new marriage Awards

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 07:47:53
The current system is just fine, No need to try make money from others like this it would just end up getting abused

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 08:03:29
thats just like saying torn just fine there no need for torn 2.0 it would just end up getting abused.

Rekker the current system its ok but I see improvement.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 08:12:16
No. Just No.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 08:19:49
tell me why Butters??

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 08:24:28
Because I'd rather not have that cheap gossip show marriage/divorce nonsense in torn, nor am I overly excited about bringing "polygamy" into the game.

Just because you can do something IRL it doesn't mean it translates into Torn City.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 08:28:58
Butters i get what your saying but you did say you like something about it .


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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 08:35:15
This is just a bad idea.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 08:55:12
why do you say that TheDarkLegacy ???


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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 08:55:59
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Butters i get what your saying but you did say you like something about it .


Where did I say I liked anything about this suggestion? :;o

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 08:57:51
Tbh, i think his suggestion is pretty good.

While you can't fully implements his idea, some of it has good benefits for many players and can make the game more interesting, like the group marriage and new marriage awards. for the polygamy... maybe you could make another place that allowed it with some requirements. how does it sound?

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 09:14:11
sounds about right Haiiri.

We already can get married so why not add something to it to make it lil more fun.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 09:36:57
Haha... You're right. It'll strengthen the simulation aspects. Would be nice if it could be implemented in torn :;);

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 11:03:37
This is a game, not some place for kids to pretend to be married like in real life. Would it be fun if your level one spouse gets your PI because they divorced you?

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 12:12:32
Man your funny. You didn't see this ???





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1. Prenuptial agreement
if you dont know what that is a Prenuptial agreement is a contract entered into prior to marriage, civil unio;n or any other agreement prior to the main agreement by the people intending to marry or contract with each other. The content of a prenuptial agreement can vary widely, but commonly includes provisions for division of property and spousal support in the event of divorce or breakup of marriage.

2. If you dont get a Prenuptial agreement what you make when you two are marred is split in half.




Look at this. If you can buy a pi I know you can get the Prenuptial agreement



And you about a level one taking your pi. Look at what I said next. If that level one was marred to you when got that pi yes that level one gets 1/2 .


Man stop making me lol why would you marry a level one anyway.


this will make you think first to who you marry.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 12:21:51
In other words, you want orgies in the game.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 12:34:59
Not In other words. What I said at 1st is it there's no between the lines what I said what I mean.



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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 12:36:22
The problem with multiple people in the same marriage is too many people living in the same house. That is too much for property sharing. Also how would that work with marriage merits? When one person would divorce would the whole group have to break up or would the one just leave?

Getting money from your spouse automatically should not happen. That also could just help multis transfer money since they can marry someone on the same IP don't set up a thing and then divorce after seven days then get half of the money from the other player. Also in that who would you determine that the alimony/ divorce settlement be taken from? I think it would just make a mess that is not needed.

New marriage awards is the only one that I agree with.
Also the sharing the upkeep is not bad either.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 12:43:08
Thanks DRZ. that's will be easy to explain. its just going to take me time to explains it all on my phone so give me time ok

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 13:20:50
How do you split a PI in half?

Why is this needed?

In a real marriage with no pre-nup the couple gets half of the assets each because it's assumed that they helped each other. At least, that's one reason. Marriage is a partnership in which you share each other's life. If one partner was a home while the other partner made the dough, the first partner was housekeeping/ looking after babies or at the very least offering moral support.

In the game all your spouse does is use your house. They have no effect on your game.

It just seems to be adding complications where they aren't needed.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 16:01:25
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The problem with multiple people in the same marriage is too many people living in the same house. That is too much for property sharing.


it will be a limit on how many people can with one property. Let's say you own a private island its will hold up to 1-10. if you own a ranch it will hold 1-4 so on and so on .

By DrZed [237786] Also how would that work with marriage merits?


There will be 5 Merits

1. first person on torn to be marred to more then one person.

2. You will get one for being marred to more then more than one person.

3. the first person to be in a Group marriage on torn

4. This one will just be day like being marred to the one person for 100 days or Group marriage

5. first one to leave a group marriage



By DrZed [237786] When one person would divorce would the whole group have to break up or would the one just leave?


first you have to be marred to someone to make a Group marriage let's just say if three couples choose to get marred they Will. But if one of the couples in the group choose to leave it won't affect the rest of the people in the group.




By DrZed [237786] Getting money from your spouse automatically should not happen.


DRZ your funny that's not what I said the upkeep will just take 1/2 of the money from the spouse automatically



By DrZed [237786] j.That also could just help multis transfer money since they can marry someone on the same IP don';t set up a thing and then divorce after seven days then get half of the money from the other player.


Lol I know a way to stop that to the system will say your I p address are too close we can not you get no money or items from this marriage.





By DrZed [237786] Also in that who would you determine that the alimony/ divorce settlement be taken from? I think it would just make a mess that is not needed.







I like this one its funny. there are two ways this can work. first one is each spouse hires a divorce attorney the one with the most money will buy the best one and or if your intelligence is high enough you can do it yourself. Then after they talk it out you will get a letter saying you got this in the divorce but you can try again but you have to pay the person who is defending you .

the second one is notvas funny as the first . it will be some type of trade you pick what you like from marriage items. if you pick the same items it will be some type of coin toss something like that but. but you have a time limit of 2 hours if you jo;in and tale to long on someitems the system with use for you. thinking of a long time late say 100 days the system will choose for the other side.








New marriage awards is the only one that I agree with.
Also the sharing the upkeep is not bad either. [/quote]



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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 16:12:29
It's just a bad idea, let it go. Maybe this would allow your multis to all share your PI but it's just too over complicated and pointless.

This is a game, we shouldn't have to pay lawyers and get agreement from both parties to divorce, this isn't real life. With this, divorcing someone who is inactive is not possible since they will automatically get what the game decides to give them.

Also, why should you have to give half of your items to someone who has not contributed to them at all?

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 16:24:38
You are making up new honours that would only be awarded to one person for each (;well more than one if you are giving it to the first people who entered a group marriage not first person because you need more than one person to do that.); That would not be done just for something that someone could do so easily but just be the first at it especially the first to split up a group marriage.

When I said getting money from your spouse automatically I was talking about the Alimony / divorce settlement.
I do not see a need for it and then people will be just marrying and divorcing for money.

I still say that it is not needed. Also if both sides have the means to support themselves usually then alimony is not made. In this game people have the means to support themselves. They can get a job without any problem and there are no real expenses that someone has to survive basically so there is not any need for a feature that is like that. It is kind of like the welfare suggestion someone suggested. Why have that in this game where there is enough opportunity in this game to make money and there is not any hindrance of that being in part of a relationship.

Also 10 people in 1 Private Island is too many for how this game works.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 16:36:18
Your a funny it's not over complicated its very simple. some of the things we do right now on this game over complicated but we don't notice it . and you say this is not real life but its model after real life. they're only getting the items from your marriage not the items before the marriage that's it man you can just put all your money and a off shore account (; that's over complicated off shore banking and if very expensive but we have ); and you can give all of your items to someone you know and trust . and if you don't like games modeled after real life I guess you don't like the game your playing now. why do you want to play a simple game?? games should have a little more to them not just the basics simple and easy to understand stuff.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 17:15:27
Look, you obviously don't understand that people play this game for fun, not to go through divorce proceedings where you have to give someone half your stuff because you don't like them anymore.

The game is based on real life, but not completely. In real life do you sell flowers to museums to get points? Do you fight people with mini guns in real life and then leave them in the streets to level up? Parts of it are realistic but this is a game, not some website where you do exactly what you do in real life.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 17:45:18
Your funny lol I'll probably do. back to the point we already get married I'm just saying add something more to it that's it nothing outrageous.


It's like saying why do we need a point where we can't gym anymore then some guy will say because it will take a super long time for others to catch up with them game life is not fair that's how it works.

this game is based on real life but there's still some things in this game that makes it a game so it doesn't feel like real life.

To you and DRZ I can't see this on torn 1.0 but I can see it on torn 2.0 .


you all are just saying there's no reason to have this. there's no reason to let staff to play the game. there's no reason when you're sending money look at for people trying to trick you out of money that's pointless and if they're not smart enough to not get tricked out your money or items they shouldn't play . you all just don't like change. You all are like know that's too complicated making this game is very complicated should he just deleted and keep all the money???





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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 17:56:57
You are amazingly stupid. How can you compare not adding a stupid idea to stopping people training to make it "fairer"? Your arguments make little sense, as do your posts.

There are plenty of reasons to not have this, it's just that you pay no attention to arguments you disagree with.

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 18:19:51
I think you need to look at what you said. its your own opinion

I'm just saying when not add something new to something old that's it

I'm not saying they were bad upgrades I'm just say you are talking just like that relax

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Posted on Tue Jun 18, 2013 19:25:28
+1 I like the prenup idea

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Posted on Wed Jun 19, 2013 02:18:09
I like the idea of sharing upkeep and new merits, perhaps the pre-nup, but specifying an amount rather than trying to split everything, what a nightmare.

That group marriage thing is just sick, you dirty, dirty little man!

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Posted on Wed Jun 19, 2013 03:35:20
Thx fluffy. You all need to stop thinking of a group marriage as a sexual things it should be more of a benefits thing but the game should have more benefits when you get married.

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