By Squalex 
yeah....personals are not at all helpful if your a male..... people on here are mostly men... looking for slutty girls - which is what the female side of the personals is all about!
and property sharing isn't quite what i was looking for. I wanted to find someone i could have a laugh with and someone I could see as a "team member" you know?
thankyou for you help though LDP!
Try joining a larger faction (more members), start speaking to them and get to know some of them. Surely someone will want you!